Open letter to President Obama: We need a Statue of Responsibility on Robben Island please.

Open letter to President Obama:
We need a Statue of Responsibility on Robben Island  please.

Dear president Obama,

Let me cut to the chase: You are visiting Robben Island today – a place of enormous symbolism. I want to make a bold request. Please consider a symbolic gift to us in the form of a statue:   Yes, a big statue to be erected on Robben Island, to be called the Statue of Responsibility .  We all know that the statue of Liberty was a gift of the French nation to the American people. We all know that the powerful presence of  lady Liberty in New York (on Liberty Island), is an inspiration to many. Wouldn’t it be great if you can return the compliment and give a symbolic Statue of Responsibility  to  the people of South Africa, Africa and the World, as a gift from the American people, to be erected on Robben Island where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned.  

Why a statue of Responsibility? We all know that freedom & responsibility (should) go hand in hand like a fish & water. Where things go wrong is where people fight for freedom but forget to act responsibly once they attained freedom.

As USA President, carrying great responsibility, you will know  that freedom is a double sided coin.  It is best illustrated by the fact that in Hebrew there are two words for freedom: ‘hofshi’ and ‘hor’: One denotes negative freedom: “Free FROM …”  oppression, imprisonment, slavery, colonialism, etc. But that is just the starting point. The other word denotes positive freedom: “Free TO ….”  … to serve, to make a positive difference and helping others. Nelson Mandela, whose prison cell you are visiting today, was the perfect example of a leader who embraced both of these meanings of the word ‘freedom’.

All the problems in the world derive from businesses not taking up their responsibilities contributing to climate change and polluting the environment, irresponsible politicians (unlike Mandela) using their position for personal gain, fathers making babies but not taking up their role as fathers neglecting their children. Teenagers, screaming for freedom, can mess up their lives if they don’t have a sense of responsibility.  The list is endless. 

I have a confession: As students of a men’s residence we incurred the wrath of your American Embassy in Pretoria on this topic. It was rag time (charity fund-raising festival) and we toyed with the idea (and even published it) to depict the statue of liberty as a pregnant lady on one of the carnival floats. Your Embassy took offence, and despite our assurances that it was none of us who impregnated her (!?) – they wrote a letter of protest to our University principal, who  came down real hard on us prohibiting us to build a carnival float with a pregnant Statue of Liberty. We wanted to make a point similar to the following:   

Lady Liberty thought, since she symbolizes freedom, that she also must have the freedom to explore a bit and even change her dress and have a bit of fun. So she did:

But one dark and stormy night she neglected her duty to carry the flame of liberty and left her post to play with the sailors in the harbour. She threw all responsibility overboard, and thought nobody would find out – but after a while her slip was showing ….

You look like a man who can appreciate a bit of humor President Obama, but our current reality in SA is no joke. We have leaders who have to be seriously reminded that they must not abuse the freedom they got, after fighting for it so long. Some of them are blatantly using their positions of power for personal gain.

A statue of responsibility will be a soft but strong way to remind all  leaders and citizens of the world to fight for freedom, but use it responsibly. 

Your call earlier on your tour to African leaders, and the African youth was to take responsibility and hold our leaders accountable. Please consider to cement this call now with this symbolic gift. 

You are probably aware that the idea of a Statue of Responsibility was first proposed by the Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, author of  the best-selling book, "Man's Search for Meaning",  In his book  he describes how he created meaning from his prison experience  as a  surviving Nazi prisoner at both Auschwitz and Dachau. "Freedom is not the last word," Frankl wrote. "Freedom is only part of the story and half of the truth. The positive aspect of freedom is responsibleness. That is why I recommend that the Statue of Liberty on the East Coast be supplemented by a Statue of Responsibility on the West Coast."

In the late 1980s dr Frankl spoke  at the University of Pretoria, and  he then  suggested that the Statue must be erected on the other side of the Atlantic ocean in South Africa.

I also know that before his death in 1997 dr Frankl with some American friends including the late  Stephen R. Covey, started the  Statue of Responsibility Foundation and that they already commissioned the Springville sculptor Gary Price to design a monument that captured Frankl's vision. Their idea is to erect it in Utah on the west coast, but the project probably needs government input to be more than a private initiative. There is even a group in South Africa saying it must be in Port Elizabeth in the Eastern Cape in Nelson Mandela Bay.   

My request to you Mr president is: Can’t you take control of this project and get the inspired people to talk to each other and even give consideration to the fact that the best symbolic venue for such a statue would be Robben Island. I am sure it can be a beautiful part of your legacy

Why Robben Island?  Because Robben Island is our Liberty Island – a symbol of hope to the World. It does not only symbolise Freedom ( Nkululeko) - it also symbolises the fact the two leaders, Nelson Mandela and FW de Klerk took responsibility: They used their freedom responsibly to create a future for us all. You will visit Madiba’s cell of 18 years today, but I hope they also share with you the fact that  the decision by the Apartheid government to break free from the old parading and release Mandela, was also taken on the island – in the historic Guest House on the Island where they will probably offer you tea on your visit.

In the late 90’s and we started a “Short Walk to Freedom” project where we took leaders on a 4-step paradigm shift workshop on Robben Island: Captivity, Liberation, Responsibility and Leadership. Part of these workshops was to design models for a Statue of Responsibility to be erected on Robben Island. Robben Island can be the best place for the Statue of Responsibility, because on this island Madiba  had the longest part of his  long walk to freedom. Unfortunately he had a short time for leadership.  Since all of us are to some extent  prisoners without knowing (of the past, personal pain, paradigms , prejudice, etc) we must do our own short walk to freedom.  If we shorten our walk to freedom, we will have a longer time for responsible leadership. 

A Statue of Responsibility can be an international symbol to rally energy for responsible leadership.

I hope this can be part of your legacy, mr. President!

Kind regards

Gustav

Dr Gustav Gous,  MD: Short Walk Seminars (Pty) Ltd  www.gustavgous.co.za  

Call to action: Nelson Mandela’s life and death. Walk free ...

Call to action: Nelson Mandela’s life and death. 

Call your prison and Walk free ...

Everybody knows it is inevitable. We will hear one day, perhaps sooner than we want: “World icon Nelson Mandela dies”. Rafael Nadal tweeted about Mandela’s death prematurely and apologised to his 4 million plus followers – but at least he is one of the people who respects and recognises his legacy.  We know and accept: Nelson Mandela is old and frail and cannot live forever. When it happens, we will be sad and deeply touched.  We will mourn as a South African nation. Actually, the whole world will mourn the death of perhaps the most inspiring leader of the previous century. He was even the 'go-to' leader for celebrities and other world leaders such as American president Bill Clinton who came to seek Mandela’s advice during his time of serious problems.

But what are we to do in this uneasy waiting period? Send well wishes? Must we just pray for his recovery? Obviously two great gestures. But is this the best way to honour him? Or must we just sit and wait, like the protocol group of the South African state who, in anticipation of the bad news, activates the funeral and other contingency plans, every time Madiba (his tribal name) is admitted to hospital? 

No, we must not sit and wait – we must act. The best way to honour Madiba’s legacy is not just to empathize or watch with interest and emotion the media drama that will unfold. Many dignitaries will arrive with over 2000 planes expected to land, creating a media circus. Sharing in the emotion of the moment will be good (like so many did with Lady Diana’s funeral), but it is still not the best way to honour his life.  If we only focus on his great extraordinary deeds  - his  27 years in prison, coming out with forgiveness and not with guns blazing -  then it will be just reminiscing the past.  His life and death will only get real meaning if we do not only remember the past but start doing something in the present.

This blog is not a call to observation, but a call to action:  It is a call, that you actually should have started to act long ago.  The call to action is to live Mandela’s example and not to only admire his great deeds.

What is the Mandela secret?

The secret of Mandela’s legacy lies in the fact that he really was a free man. He did not only have a Long Walk to Freedom (title of his autobiography) -  being released after 27 years in prison, 18 of those on Robben Island. He was also free from hatred, the bondages of the past, the negative residual of personal pain that was inflicted on him, and free from vengeance.  All of this was possible because he embraced the concept of forgiveness. Because of this, South Africa got off the top of the world's hot spot list and became a country with a future. 

Other hot spots in the world stay hot because fighting factions perpetuate hatred. They feed it. They keep it alive. 'Live, and let live' is for example not big in the Middle East. They hate each other so much that some don't even recognize the existence of others.  Great military leaders in history loved their own people, hated their enemies, and conquered and killed them, and got written into history.  But greater leaders love not only their friends but also their enemies.  They are the ’next level leaders’, in a class of their own. They are a rare breed: few and far between. In South Africa we call these kinds of leaders ‘rainmakers’ – they bring good things to all people under the sun/ on earth. 

In this respect, Nelson Mandela, a Methodist Christian, imitated an even greater leader, Jesus Christ, who preached and lived that you must love not only your neighbour, but also your enemies. Jesus was willing to sacrifice: He died and lived for his message of love for all humankind.  Mandela said during the Rivonia trial that led to his imprisonment 49 years ago: “During my lifetime I have dedicated myself to this struggle of the African people. I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”

Nelson in his own admittance is not a saint and he resisted being iconised, but he surely did practice the principle of forgiveness – and that unique ability made him the ‘next level leader’ we admire. He went from positional power to ‘personhood’ where people will follow him for what he is and stands for.

Two movies especially depict Mandela’s attitude of forgiveness, inclusion and love for all: 

(1) Invictus, (produced and directed in 2009 by Clint Eastwood with Morgan Freeman as Mandela and Matt Damon as Springbok Rugby captain Francois Pienaar), where Mandela embraces the then predominantly white sport Rugby, to bring about reconciliation and victory for all South Africans.  He rejects revenge, forgives his oppressors and creates national unity in an unlikely place: The Rugby field. 

(2) Goodbye Bafana (a Bille August film, 2007) depicts the special friendship that developed between prisoner Mandela and his then  racist jailer/warder James Gregory. Perhaps they discovered their common humanity in the fact that both men lost their son’s in motor car accidents, with Mandela not even being allowed to attend the funeral of his own son.  

It is beyond the reach of petty dictators to ever, get over the hurt of the past and become a next level leader like Nelson Mandela. Caught up in their own hatred, personal pain, they live a reactive life of getting back at people. A classical example is Robert Mugabe who recently criticized Nelson Mandela, saying:  "Mandela has gone a bit too far in doing good to the non-black communities [whites, mixed race and Indian people – GG] , really in some cases at the expense of blacks...," in an interview with talk show host Dali Tambo. "That is being too saintly, too good, too much of a saint," he said. Mugabe also fought for freedom, but will die in his own prisons of hatred, reversed racism and homophobia.  It will be interesting to see how Zimbabweans and the world view Mugabe’s funeral one day – who stayed in power with fear tactics and rigged elections.

Call to action

But what is the call to action then? It is plain and simple: Inspired by Nelson Mandela’s life well lived …

·         1. Call your own prison.

·         2. Then walk free from it.

·         3. Then Change your world for the better as a free leader.

First be transformed – then lead to transform. Name your own prisons. Then break free. Then use your position to make the world a better place.  In doing so Mandela’s inevitable death will not only stir up emotion, but also result in action. Just like Mandela had a long walk to freedom, you must do your personal walk to freedom.  This is to my mind the best way to honour his legacy. Because only free leaders can lead people to a better place.

My call to action to all of us is to do a ‘Short Walk to Freedom’. Mandela had a long walk to freedom and a short time for leadership. If we can shorten our respective walks to freedom, then we can have a longer time for leadership.

Since the nineties, I’ve been hosting “Short Walk to Freedom”-interventions on Robben Island on a regular basis.  There I lead senior executives and upcoming young leaders on a three step journey: From Captivity, to Liberation, to Leadership. The first step is to identify all the ‘prisons’ that hold you back and prevent you from reaching your destiny. The same prisons can hinder your company/NGO/family/community/country/political party/trade union/school or university.

Over the years we have identified more than 45 potential prisons that hold us back, including the prisons of

• ·         the past
• ·         prejudice
• ·         paradigms  (political, business, ideological, etc)
• ·         personal pain
• ·         habits  (even addictions)
• ·         fundamentalism
• ·         greed   …

and many more.  It turned into a project that will soon become a publication that will urge people to break free from everything that is holding them back.

We contemplated the following over the years:

• ·         If people get out of the prison of unresolved issues and personal pain, they will be free to have pro-active lives and not re-active lives, in relationships and business teams
• ·         If some bankers can escape from the prison of greed – then we can avoid a further global credit crunch.
• ·         If people can walk away from the prison of selfishness/immorality, then we can prevent the next Enron scandal.
• ·         If people can break free from fundamentalism, there will be less wars on earth.
• ·         If people can break free from outdated business and environmental paradigms, then businesses and the world will flourish more.
• ·         If politicians can break free from their self-serving prison and start serving the people like Nelson Mandela did, we will all have a better life for all - in South Africa and elsewhere. Nelson Mandela was a freedom fighter that fought for principles.  Many of his struggle mates are not actually freedom fighters, but proved themselves to be mere “power fighters” who aim for and cling to positions of power, for the sake of self-enrichment and family enrichment through nepotism.  Some even cling to positions of power because of the prison of fear: The moment they lose the immunity that goes with their position, they know they will be criminally charged or brought to book for war crimes.  
• ·         Bad habits are cobwebs that turn into cables – if you stay in the grip of bad habits people will never reach their rightful destiny.

My call to action is: Call your prison and walk free. Follow in Mandela’s footsteps and do your personal walk to freedom, albeit shorter.

Feel even free to contact me if you want to do your walk to freedom with me on Robben Island in the footsteps of Mandela.  admin@gustavgous.co.za

My last call to action is a smaller one:  If you can think of, or identify any type of ‘prison’ that can hold us back as individuals, communities, nations, humanity – then post it at the end of the blog or on my Facebook/LinkedIn/Twitter links. It can help us in our research project to identify as many as possible ‘prisons’ that we can break free from, and include it in our future publications.

In summary: 

If you want to honour Nelson Mandela’s legacy- then do something:  Just watching the media circus surrounding his possible death is not enough – honour his life through action.

Realize that we are often ‘prisoners without knowing’ – prisoners of the past, prejudice, personal pain, paradigms, emotions (hatred, fear), unresolved issues, addictions, and many more.  Identify your prisons, and walk free – in doing so you will liberate yourself to be the best leader you can be -  a next level leader like Nelson Mandela.

Dr Gustav Gous  is an International Motivational Speaker and 

Executive Life Coach with experience on 5 continents. In the past he 

was the in-house councillor for the petro-chemical company Sasol 

for 9 years.  He is known for his Transformational leadership 

programmes on Robben Island, titled the “Short Walk to Freedom”. 

He is a Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) and past President 

of the Professional Speakers Association of Southern Africa and a 

member of the APSS (Asia Professional Speakers Singapore).  

Currently he is heading up the Diversity Intelligence Institute, 

specializing in rolling out Diversity Intelligence interventions for 

international companies.   www.gustavgous.co.za , www.diviin.com ,

www.diversityconference.co.za    gustav@gustavgous.co.za    drgous@iafrica.com

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